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The Perfect Match: Top Three Kinks to Pair with Jerk Off Instruction

Fun fact; the first JOI video I ever made was thanks to a long time regular making it a custom request. I joked it would be the only JOI video I ever made. Boy, was I wrong. In this blog post I’m going to be exploring the top 3 kink combinations that pair perfectly with JOI. I will share insights based on my own video sales stats and personal expertise, hopefully offering you a glimpse into why this genre is so popular. If you’re a fellow content creator looking to expand your repertoire or a JOI connoisseur eager to delve a little deeper into your favorite kinks, this article is for you. In no particular order, here are the top three kinks to pair with jerk off instruction.

Remember, the art of JOI videos is an ever-evolving landscape—so embrace your creativity, explore uncharted territories, and bring your audiences to new heights of ecstasy. Get ready to embark on an journey enriched with pleasure and desire.

Roleplay

Three screenshots from "Your Roomate Helps You Out JOI" by Lux Neon

Lovers of my videos probably guessed this one was coming. I’ve always been an actor and artist at heart, so I have more than a soft spot for roleplay. When it comes to pairing up kinks, JOI and Roleplay are an ultimate combination. Dare I say it. They’re better together than apart. Imagine a fantasy of your neighbor seducing and stripping for you. Wouldn’t it turn even hotter if she started encouraging you to start masturbating? Or what if a co-worker sent you a naughty sext. How much hornier would you get if she demanded you stroke for her hot body? I bet you can throw JOI into every one of your fantasies and it would fit right in.

With roleplay I think a common misconception is that it’s complicated and only for those who are good at acting, but I think it can be for everyone with an open mind. If you want to explore roleplay and JOI together as a creator, don’t be afraid to start simple. It’s not the most complex stories and fantasies that work the best. It’s the ones that feel the most natural.

Humiliation

Three screenshots from the video "HandFucking Loser Acceptance JOI" by Lux Neon

Once I started exploring and diving into the Femdom world of video creation I discovered I had a knack for loser humiliation. (See “She’s a Natural at Loser Humiliation“) Naturally, my little losers get off to my videos so they love it when I’m also the one encouraging and instructing them on how to touch themselves while watching. Adding JOI can make a video especially humiliating and sexy in that special delicious way. It’s truly a no brainer combination.

I find fetishes like humiliation can sometimes become over-focused on the sadistic side of things and forget to stay playful or even sexual. Incorporating JOI adds a constant erotic reminder to the mix and makes for more opportunities for dirty talk amidst the delicious degradation. As a Dom and an entrepreneur, I revel in tying my viewer’s orgasms to my sadistic smile, bratty giggle, and devious words of encouragement. Not only does it make the video more satisfying for the viewer but it encourages repeat views. I want my humiliation-seeking losers watching over and over. The more they watch, the more they crave.

Worship

I know this one sounds broad and that’s because it is. A worshipping kink can go in several directions, but jerk off instruction can be combined with all of them. Goddess worship, body worship, tits, ass, legs, and feet worship. If it’s a body part on a sexy person, it can be worshipped. For lovers of this kink, pairing it up with JOI comes at no surprise. Usually, (but not always) worshipping is part of a dominant/submissive interaction. The delight of sinking to your knees in front of your Goddess. Begging her to let you worship every inch of her. Becoming enraptured in her intoxicating presence. Then for her to demand you worship with your whole being by jerking off for her. It’s enough to make any submissive melt. Worshipping already puts a sub into a deeper submissive state. Following instructions to masturbate in that state can prove an even more intense experience. Would you try it?

Exploring Endless Possibilities

As you can probably see, these three kinks are just the tip. Whatever category may be your favorite in porn, JOI can be invited to the party. Dirty talk is the perfect way to get the horny parts of our brains going. When you think about it, it’s one of the least physically taxing things you can do sexually. And like most things, dirty talk and jerk off instruction gets better with practice.

Pro Tips for Creators

JOI has proven to be both a lucrative and deeply fulfilling creative genre within the realm of adult entertainment. By incorporating JOI into your videos and other content, you can unlock a world of creative possibilities and take your audience on a journey of pleasure that you create for them. How bad ass is that?

Jerk off instruction on its own can ignite and intensify nearly any fetish or kink. No matter how long the video, amateur, kinky, or vanilla, JOI can join in. Whatever you choose to bring into your videos, make it work for you. Porn runs the gamut when it comes to how straightforward or complex a piece of content can be. Personal preferences, sales, and customer requests can all contribute to what a creator might choose to focus on filming. I’ve found over the years that in order to make more consistent sales, it’s important to narrow your focus to a few categories. Ideally, your favorite genres to work with also make you the most sales. And while focus is important, don’t be afraid to try new things. JOI is my biggest category now, but I might never had tried it because I worried it wasn’t for me. Have fun. Be sexy. You got this gorgeous.

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Now if you’ve never heard of jerk off instructions as a genre or fetish don’t consider yourself a prude just yet. While it’s included in ‘mainstream’ porn it’s not often at the forefront or necessarily in the top searches. The exception being kinky sites. This niche has been elevating in popularity though. More and more people come to the internet in search of adult content that feels one on one or a bit more personal. As opposed to the audience type feel you may get while watching adult film actors in the latest feature. For the most part, they aren’t focused on the camera. You may be saying to yourself; “Masturbation is a solo activity and one that I’m good at. Why would I want someone else telling me how to touch myself?” Just wait and see my friend. I’m going to tell you why JOI is one of my favorite categories. Or maybe you’re just like the thousands of others who search the internet for quality content of hot babes telling them how to jerk off already. If you’re not into it (yet) let me show you some reasons why this particular niche is for everyone!

Dirty talk = Versatility

It feels weird calling this a niche when it’s one of the most diverse categories out there. That’s one of the reasons I enjoy it so much. Most of what camgirls and indie smut peddlers are making basically falls under these two umbrellas:

Vanilla JOI

This can be any form of straight-up jerk off encouragement. It can also be included in intricate roleplays, cosplays and storylines. Characters here can be a little sassy like a naughty co-worker or bratty cheerleader. But in general, she is encouraging, sexual and positive toward the instructed. Content creators sometimes film these directing their instructions at other actors but most stare straight at the camera in a point of view (POV) style. The latter is what I work with. This helps the watcher feel part of the scene and gives a more natural flow for the performer to focus on. I like feeling like I’m talking directly to a person. I can imagine them and what they’re doing which gets my juices flowing and it helps the scene feel authentic on both sides of the camera.

Femdom/fetish JOI

Anything that gets a little kinky or has a character dominating or humiliating the person watching can find its home in this category. I understand the average person may be confused or even downright appalled at the idea of humiliation porn. For someone who’s been in the business for a long time, it’s just another day. Imagine a man who was picked on and bullied in high school by girls he was attracted to. Or a guy who’s constantly rejected and hasn’t lost his virginity as he’s gotten older. Some people sexualize experiences like these. Others just have a thing for hot brats and bitches. One of my most requested themes is a POV JOI style where I point and laugh at the ‘loser in front of me’.

I can’t stress enough how these categories are by no means exhaustive. I could make a JOI video every day for a year and still not run out of ideas. Maybe you might think I go a little overboard but I can’t help it. I like to look at adult films both artfully and academically. While not forgetting it’s about making people horny, and maybe coaxing out a laugh or two.

OK, I gotta try this…

I know I know, you’re already convinced this is hot and something you’d be interested in trying. How naughty of you! Just in case you’re not convinced though (and because I just love to tease you) I’m going to touch on the benefits of ‘playing’ well with others.

It’s easy to dip your dick/clit into. JOI videos are on the rise with more and more coming out every day. Easy listening more your speed? There are thousands of sultry creative voices on Mp3s to urge you towards climax. Want something specific? Thousands of creators are out there in all shapes, sizes, and colors willing to create your ultimate fantasy for the right price in the form of custom videos and photos. Want real-time contact? Camgirls on Myfreecams, Onlyfans models, Manyvids creators, Iwantclips Dommes and so many others. From live cam, phone and text you can interact with your favorite babe on the internet. (For my links on these websites check out my ‘About Me‘ page)

Alright, so it’s going to up your fap game considerably. Not to mention expand your imagination while supporting sex working entrepreneurs and artists (YOU rock!) What if I told you jerk off instruction can be added to improve and enrich other aspects of your life? Well, keep tugging along cause we’re getting close.

It’s not just for single people. JOI in relationships?! Am I nuts?! NUTS, for this topic… Sorry for that one. There are multiple scenarios using JOI where you can spice up your love life like the magazines say. Masturbating with partners can already be an erotic and satisfying experience. Kick it up a notch (BAM!) by interacting directly with them and what they’re doing. Imagine watching each other while telling the babe in front of you exactly what you want them to do to themselves. Hot! Long-distance relationships don’t have to be so hard when you can call up your sweety and dirty talk each other to nirvana. Just remember to communicate clearly and honestly with your partner. It’s ok to say silly things that don’t make sense or to even burst into laughter while diddling your skittle. You don’t have to be a professional. Besides, laughing is sexy!

How I discovered jerk off instruction and why I specialize in it

Screenshot from ‘Girlfriend drains your cock’

Even after I had been in the industry for a few years I didn’t make my first JOI video until I got a custom request for it. That video (Striptease JOI) remains one of my top sellers to this day. I wish I could say that was a lightbulb moment. Instead, I let years pass barely making more videos of its kind. It didn’t seem like a popular fetish and at the time I couldn’t see how much I could do with it. As I dipped into it more, including a few live shows, I finally saw the light.

What jerk off instruction can do is take a specialized or complex fantasy and connect it directly to the viewer. That’s the real magic of the indie creator’s medium. The internet is flooded with content aimed at large, generic and ‘sellable’ audiences. Not to say there’s no good big name content, but I’m obviously biased. I’m not here for what a board room of money men are saying is selling. I’m here to find out what gets people hot. Which is a joy to research. The beauty of this genre is the adaptability it has to any idea that may pop into my head. This category is now my most popular by far and I have a long list of more ideas to come. We all jack off. Let’s do it together!

The Versatility of JOI: Best Kink Combinations for Ultimate Pleasure