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The Versatility of JOI: Best Kink Combinations for Ultimate Pleasure
Welcome to the exciting realm of JOI (jerk off instruction) videos, where the pleasure is in the palm of your own hands. Innuendo absolutely intended. JOI is an incredibly popular genre in porn, and for good reason. You can combine JOI with practically any fantasy after all. As a seasoned creator in the adult entertainment industry myself, I fell in love with making JOI videos in part because of their versatility and flexibility. And I love telling someone to cum for me
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The Perfect Match: Top Three Kinks to Pair with Jerk Off Instruction
Fun fact; the first JOI video I ever made was thanks to a long time regular making it a custom request. I joked it would be the only JOI video I ever made. Boy, was I wrong. In this blog post I’m going to be exploring the top 3 kink combinations that pair perfectly with JOI. I will share insights based on my own video sales stats and personal expertise, hopefully offering you a glimpse into why this genre is so popular. If you’re a fellow content creator looking to expand your repertoire or a JOI connoisseur eager to delve a little deeper into your favorite kinks, this article is for you. In no particular order, here are the top three kinks to pair with jerk off instruction.
Remember, the art of JOI videos is an ever-evolving landscape—so embrace your creativity, explore uncharted territories, and bring your audiences to new heights of ecstasy. Get ready to embark on an journey enriched with pleasure and desire.
Roleplay
Lovers of my videos probably guessed this one was coming. I’ve always been an actor and artist at heart, so I have more than a soft spot for roleplay. When it comes to pairing up kinks, JOI and Roleplay are an ultimate combination. Dare I say it. They’re better together than apart. Imagine a fantasy of your neighbor seducing and stripping for you. Wouldn’t it turn even hotter if she started encouraging you to start masturbating? Or what if a co-worker sent you a naughty sext. How much hornier would you get if she demanded you stroke for her hot body? I bet you can throw JOI into every one of your fantasies and it would fit right in.
With roleplay I think a common misconception is that it’s complicated and only for those who are good at acting, but I think it can be for everyone with an open mind. If you want to explore roleplay and JOI together as a creator, don’t be afraid to start simple. It’s not the most complex stories and fantasies that work the best. It’s the ones that feel the most natural.
Humiliation
Once I started exploring and diving into the Femdom world of video creation I discovered I had a knack for loser humiliation. (See “She’s a Natural at Loser Humiliation“) Naturally, my little losers get off to my videos so they love it when I’m also the one encouraging and instructing them on how to touch themselves while watching. Adding JOI can make a video especially humiliating and sexy in that special delicious way. It’s truly a no brainer combination.
I find fetishes like humiliation can sometimes become over-focused on the sadistic side of things and forget to stay playful or even sexual. Incorporating JOI adds a constant erotic reminder to the mix and makes for more opportunities for dirty talk amidst the delicious degradation. As a Dom and an entrepreneur, I revel in tying my viewer’s orgasms to my sadistic smile, bratty giggle, and devious words of encouragement. Not only does it make the video more satisfying for the viewer but it encourages repeat views. I want my humiliation-seeking losers watching over and over. The more they watch, the more they crave.
Worship
I know this one sounds broad and that’s because it is. A worshipping kink can go in several directions, but jerk off instruction can be combined with all of them. Goddess worship, body worship, tits, ass, legs, and feet worship. If it’s a body part on a sexy person, it can be worshipped. For lovers of this kink, pairing it up with JOI comes at no surprise. Usually, (but not always) worshipping is part of a dominant/submissive interaction. The delight of sinking to your knees in front of your Goddess. Begging her to let you worship every inch of her. Becoming enraptured in her intoxicating presence. Then for her to demand you worship with your whole being by jerking off for her. It’s enough to make any submissive melt. Worshipping already puts a sub into a deeper submissive state. Following instructions to masturbate in that state can prove an even more intense experience. Would you try it?
Exploring Endless Possibilities
As you can probably see, these three kinks are just the tip. Whatever category may be your favorite in porn, JOI can be invited to the party. Dirty talk is the perfect way to get the horny parts of our brains going. When you think about it, it’s one of the least physically taxing things you can do sexually. And like most things, dirty talk and jerk off instruction gets better with practice.
Pro Tips for Creators
JOI has proven to be both a lucrative and deeply fulfilling creative genre within the realm of adult entertainment. By incorporating JOI into your videos and other content, you can unlock a world of creative possibilities and take your audience on a journey of pleasure that you create for them. How bad ass is that?
Jerk off instruction on its own can ignite and intensify nearly any fetish or kink. No matter how long the video, amateur, kinky, or vanilla, JOI can join in. Whatever you choose to bring into your videos, make it work for you. Porn runs the gamut when it comes to how straightforward or complex a piece of content can be. Personal preferences, sales, and customer requests can all contribute to what a creator might choose to focus on filming. I’ve found over the years that in order to make more consistent sales, it’s important to narrow your focus to a few categories. Ideally, your favorite genres to work with also make you the most sales. And while focus is important, don’t be afraid to try new things. JOI is my biggest category now, but I might never had tried it because I worried it wasn’t for me. Have fun. Be sexy. You got this gorgeous.
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She’s a Natural at Loser Humiliation
If you’re good at something, never do it for free
Heath Ledger as The Joker in the ‘The Dark Knight’I’d been filming videos for years before I tried making fun of losers in front of a camera. I dabbled in fetish and femdom content sure, but the glass slipper didn’t truly fit until I tried out loser humiliation for the first time. Hi, I’m Lux Neon also known as TemptressLux, and I love laughing at losers. Harsh! What a BITCH! People who’ve never heard of this fetish sometimes have a negative knee-jerk reaction to it. Clearly, I must be taking advantage of weak individuals and bullying them into even lower self-esteem. Shouldn’t I be helping them instead of feeding into it? The reason I excel at this genre though is because I understand why it’s hot, why it gets people off, and why I personally fit so well as the brat girl of fantasies. Under the umbrella of humiliation, loser and virgin loser humiliation is a niche all their own.
Why do people get off to Loser Humiliation?
Beats me. No really. I’m not going to sit here and declare that I know exactly where this branch of humiliation fetish comes from and how it forms in each individual. We’re all different for one. I’m also not a psychologist or an expert in fetish origins. With that said, I’m happy to share my thoughts on where this fetish ‘could’ sometimes come from.
It’s not difficult to see how people who consider themselves actual losers would enjoy my videos. There’s plenty of hatred out there for people who can’t reach the rigorous standards and expectations from family, friends, bosses, and society at large. But while I’m sure there are plenty of ‘genuine’ losers consuming this content, I also know there are people who love it regardless of their social status.
Not all Losers
We all have insecurities in life. We face problems every day that we must overcome. The expectations and pressure can get overwhelming at times. Failure is almost more taboo a conversation topic than porn. We often do anything to avoid the vulnerability and shame of failure. Whether it be a career, familial expectations, or personal demons. Even the most successful people who you’d never guess would lack confidence, can have that nagging voice of doubt. What if you fail? What if you keep failing? What if you fail and everyone thinks you’re a loser? Here we have a common fetish origin theory. The idea that we sometimes sexualize what we fear. Sexualizing something that’s uncomfortable for us is one way human beings deal. Someone who is into loser videos isn’t necessarily a ‘loser’ in real life. Instead of telling someone they’re not a loser, I tell them it’s OK if they are. And that in fact, that’s exactly what I want them to be.
It’s not often we’re told it’s alright to lose. It’s ok to fail. Mix that with a hot bratty bossy girl who gets you horny being the one to give you that permission and we have the recipe for a perfect fetish video. Men in particular deal with sexual rejection at a higher rate than women simply because they’re usually the ones to make the first move. Sexualizing that experience and the fear of being a loser can help people release some of the power attached to those things. I challenge that not only do loser humiliation videos not hurt most people, they actually might help more than you’d think.
It’s not that deep
“You’re looking way too much into this. Guys just get off on dominant women!” That’s also a fair assessment. Sometimes it’s not that deep and they’re no big underlying reason we get off on what we do. But I like to understand my work, especially in fetish, from all angles. I think the biggest take away is that there’s no harm in thinking deeper into fetishes. If I made loser humiliation videos with the only idea being ‘be mean, treat him like shit’ I’d still make sellable content, but I don’t think I’d be creating what my fans love me for. Maybe I go overboard but I think that helps me stand out. When I go to film a humiliation video like this I keep in mind where I envision it coming from. I like imagining I’m helping someone get through their day. We all need some extra validation now and then, and not just about our accomplishments.