• She’s a Natural at Loser Humiliation

    September 16, 2021 /

    If you’re good at something, never do it for free

    Heath Ledger as The Joker in the ‘The Dark Knight’

    I’d been filming videos for years before I tried making fun of losers in front of a camera. I dabbled in fetish and femdom content sure, but the glass slipper didn’t truly fit until I tried out loser humiliation for the first time. Hi, I’m Lux Neon also known as TemptressLux, and I love laughing at losers. Harsh! What a BITCH! People who’ve never heard of this fetish sometimes have a negative knee-jerk reaction to it. Clearly, I must be taking advantage of weak individuals and bullying them into even lower self-esteem. Shouldn’t I be helping them instead of feeding into it? The reason I excel at this genre though is because I understand why it’s hot, why it gets people off, and why I personally fit so well as the brat girl of fantasies. Under the umbrella of humiliation, loser and virgin loser humiliation is a niche all their own.

    Why do people get off to Loser Humiliation?

    Beats me. No really. I’m not going to sit here and declare that I know exactly where this branch of humiliation fetish comes from and how it forms in each individual. We’re all different for one. I’m also not a psychologist or an expert in fetish origins. With that said, I’m happy to share my thoughts on where this fetish ‘could’ sometimes come from.

    It’s not difficult to see how people who consider themselves actual losers would enjoy my videos. There’s plenty of hatred out there for people who can’t reach the rigorous standards and expectations from family, friends, bosses, and society at large. But while I’m sure there are plenty of ‘genuine’ losers consuming this content, I also know there are people who love it regardless of their social status.

    Not all Losers

    We all have insecurities in life. We face problems every day that we must overcome. The expectations and pressure can get overwhelming at times. Failure is almost more taboo a conversation topic than porn. We often do anything to avoid the vulnerability and shame of failure. Whether it be a career, familial expectations, or personal demons. Even the most successful people who you’d never guess would lack confidence, can have that nagging voice of doubt. What if you fail? What if you keep failing? What if you fail and everyone thinks you’re a loser? Here we have a common fetish origin theory. The idea that we sometimes sexualize what we fear. Sexualizing something that’s uncomfortable for us is one way human beings deal. Someone who is into loser videos isn’t necessarily a ‘loser’ in real life. Instead of telling someone they’re not a loser, I tell them it’s OK if they are. And that in fact, that’s exactly what I want them to be.

    It’s not often we’re told it’s alright to lose. It’s ok to fail. Mix that with a hot bratty bossy girl who gets you horny being the one to give you that permission and we have the recipe for a perfect fetish video. Men in particular deal with sexual rejection at a higher rate than women simply because they’re usually the ones to make the first move. Sexualizing that experience and the fear of being a loser can help people release some of the power attached to those things. I challenge that not only do loser humiliation videos not hurt most people, they actually might help more than you’d think.

    It’s not that deep

    “You’re looking way too much into this. Guys just get off on dominant women!” That’s also a fair assessment. Sometimes it’s not that deep and they’re no big underlying reason we get off on what we do. But I like to understand my work, especially in fetish, from all angles. I think the biggest take away is that there’s no harm in thinking deeper into fetishes. If I made loser humiliation videos with the only idea being ‘be mean, treat him like shit’ I’d still make sellable content, but I don’t think I’d be creating what my fans love me for. Maybe I go overboard but I think that helps me stand out. When I go to film a humiliation video like this I keep in mind where I envision it coming from. I like imagining I’m helping someone get through their day. We all need some extra validation now and then, and not just about our accomplishments.

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  • HOTTEST Lux Neon Videos of 2021

    July 10, 2021 /

    Can you believe we’ve already made it halfway through 2021? Time can sure fly and it’s important as we forge ahead that we don’t forget to look back on what we’ve accomplished. In the creator world, it’s imperative to track video trends and sales data. I won’t bore you with all the details but it had me thinking, I want to feature my most popular videos of the year so far! These 3 videos have raced to the top of the sales charts. Listed in no particular order, I give you Lux Neon’s most popular videos of 2021 (so far)…

    Loser Mantra Programming

    Screenshot of title screen for “Loser Mantra Programming” showing Lux Neon in a pink bikini doing the loser symbol

    “I know you losers have been waiting for this one… You just can’t resist me can you? My dazzling smile and cruel laughter is all you want. Even when you resist you can’t help but be turned on when I point and laugh at how big of a loser you are. It’s natural to resist at first, but I think after some special loser mantras and programming you’ll rest easier into your place. You’ll be much happier once you accept who you are. Say the mantra every day… For the best experience headphones are recommended.” -Loser Mantra Programming video description

    Loser humiliation has proven to be a genre I naturally excel in. I’m regularly asked to make more while being complimented on how genuine my laughter is in each clip. After all, I hold a passion for encouraging self acceptance in people. My focus in loser videos is around accepting their fate. I think the people who watch these videos become tittilated by the acceptance especially. I’m not surprised that two videos in this category made it to most popular. Something I’ve found to be particularly appealing to buyers is adding special effects to enhance the journey. I like editing in this way too because it gets my creative juices flowing. Loser Mantra Programming is an experience for the viewer and provides re-watchability as you repeat the loser mantra daily. If you can create a saying or phrase that repeats in the watchers head, you’ll have them hooked long after they’ve stopped watching.

    Gooner Loser Acceptance

    Screenshot of the title screen for “Gooner Loser Acceptance” showing Lux Neon in bright lingerie doing the loser symbol

    “It’s obvious how big of a GOONER LOSER you are no matter how you try and deny it. You clearly need a reality check. Don’t worry, I understand. I know exactly what you need. It can be hard accepting what you are but I’m here to help. I know that with my persuasion, you’ll begin to accept your place in this world. You’re going to be a gooning little loser for life!” -Gooner Loser Acceptance video description

    Gooner Loser Acceptance as you can tell is also in the loser humiliation category but is still the first ‘gooning’ video I’ve ever made. These two fetishes commonly cross over and I’d been receiving messages for a long time asking to incorporate gooner humiliation. Fans did not disappoint as this video got snatched up quickly, even holding some time under the ‘top-selling content’ section of Iwantclips. Despite its recent release it still managed to land top 3 most popular. A proven contender guaranteeing I’ll film in this category again. Funily enough, at the time of release Iwantclips just came out with the ‘gooning’ tag on their website. It was perfect timing for this video to become a hit.

    JOI Striptease Cum Countdown

    Screenshot of the title screen for “JOI Striptease Cum Countdown” showing Lux Neon bent over in lingerie to show off her ass

    “So much delicious teasing happens in this jerk off instruction video from your point of view. Erotic and sensual with tons of dirty talk coaxing you to climax. Dressed in satiny black lingerie that displays my amble cleavage I tell you how today’s JOI is going to go. I know how much you love my JOIs and how much you jerk off to me all the time. You can’t get enough and neither can I. We’re going to start slow today as I tease you and strip for you. I urge you to tug and stroke on your hard cock. You’ll have to keep control though because today we’re ending in a cum countdown. Don’t cum before we reach the end, or else you’ll have to start over…” -JOI Striptease Cum Countdown video description

    This video made waves! Fun fact, this was originally a custom order. I’m not surprised that a custom video made it to this list. Some of my most popular videos were ideas from members. I love it when someone knows exactly what they want. Creating the fantasy they invision is a challenge I thrive on. Collaborating on a good idea is really where magic can pop up. I think JOI Striptease Cum Countdown took off because it takes on several popular categories at once and ties them together during a delicious striptease. This is the only non-fetish video to make the list. No humiliation or degration in this one. Jerk off instruction is a flexible genre in that sense. I try to make enough humiliation based and ‘vanilla’ based JOIs for everyone because it’s the category I get the most custom requests for by far. I consider JOI one of my specialties and am happy to see it featured here in the top 3.

    There are 6 more months left in 2021! Will these videos hold their titles? Or will new faces and categories come to claim the crowns?

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